Widowed in 2016 after 15 years with awesome man. Sorta wandered through the next couple years. Met a great guy and married him in 2018. Within two months of being married, he screwed a neighbor down the street. I forgave him and was glad to work through it. Later in 2019, he suddenly wanted a divorce, left me,then went back to city nearby, straight into another man's home and arms. I was devastated. I learned soon thereafter that he is a textbook psychopath. Dream is over with him, confidence shaken of trusting others and one hard lesson learned.